Occasionally, however, people do break free and go on to live truly splendid lives. These are people who provide testimonials that make next group of aspirants sign up. They prove that personal development is possible.

What creates magic of positive change?

Given large variety of self-empowerment workshops, each espousing a completely different philosophy and world-view, it can't really be information that they provide.

What makes change is that they give you what you could have got all by yourself--the understanding that in order to lead good life you have to tap into goodness within.

This goodness comes, first, from complete and utter self-acceptance and love.

From there you start to appreciate how far you've already come. And once you get into gratitude, energy begins to escalate.

After self-love and gratitude, your next step is possibility thinking. When you realize that something is possible, you start to head in that direction. All inhibitions spontaneously fall away.

Small successes then lead to bigger successes.

One day, you'll realize that you've become master of your game and your life has taken many magical turns that now allow you to live a life “beyond your wildest dreams.”

And it all started because you chose to tap goodness within.

Saleem Rana, M.Sc., is a psychotherapist in Denver, Colorado. Additional Resources For Spiritual & Psychological Growth

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But to love one another ...

If another is left holding bag (so to speak), likely putting them in a financial bind because you didn't make payment(s), you have multiplied your bondage and theirs. And, God cares about them, too. Thus, you have not really loved anyone ~ not even yourself.

For he that loveth another hath fulfilled law.

When loving God, we will love others. And, only by loving others can we truly love ourselves. In following above, you will have fulfilled requirement/met provision for God's blessings in overcoming financial bondage.

Then, once you have set your path in this direction, you will become amazed and so blessed (step by step) at God's creative solutions. Your money stretches further, you will need less of it, and debts gradually become smaller. Then, once you experience wonderful freedom of being debt free, you will wonder how you could have ever chosen any other way.

Once we have nothing left to lose, we discover God really does have answers!

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